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Relationship and Idealism
How many times have we had the chance to get involved in short term relationship with people that aren't compatible with us, but we are interested because they can temporarily fufill a void?

Compatibility for some of us is such a hard criteria for it to be fufilled. How many of us run into people that think in similiar ways , but at the same time feel totally comfortable around them?

But at the same end, being totally selective leaves us with a possibility of being single forever, which isn't a great option.

Exactly which sacrifices should we make in trade for all this. Should we sacrifice our idealism for realism? Is it realistic to think that there is such a one? If so, whats the chances that the relationship may consumate.

Perhaps that girl of your dreams either has a boyfriend, beyond your reach, overseas et c. And it is beyond you. Hope is such a depressing word, is hope denial of reality?(quote off rastlin Dgonlance)

Wrong/Right
Friday. 4.16.04 1:52 pm
Was at a pub with my friend and his girlfriend(the taiwanese princess).
Anyway being the most beautiful girl in the pub, obviously she gathered a lot of unwanted attention from guys. During the course of the night an older guy approached the girl while she was coming out of the toilet holding her hands, saying I just wanted to say hi. She looked flustered and said a few things to him not knowing what to do, until her boyfriend walked up to her grabbing her and walking off with her.

Obviously he was angry at her for being so slow. I guess I would be too in his situation. I think the RIGHT thing his gf should have done was shake off his hand, and say sorry I got a boyfriend, nice to talk to you and walk off.
A bit rude, but being friendly to strangers only make them think that all is not well with the relationship and allow more vultures to circle around. Moral of the story is, girls be rude to guys with ulterior motives, it makes your boyfriend less jealous and gains u more trust since he knows that no strange guy will want to talk to you if you behave like that:)

I think its fair , considering if I was in that situation I'd just shake her hand and ignore her totally and walk past.




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