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Relationship and Idealism
How many times have we had the chance to get involved in short term relationship with people that aren't compatible with us, but we are interested because they can temporarily fufill a void?

Compatibility for some of us is such a hard criteria for it to be fufilled. How many of us run into people that think in similiar ways , but at the same time feel totally comfortable around them?

But at the same end, being totally selective leaves us with a possibility of being single forever, which isn't a great option.

Exactly which sacrifices should we make in trade for all this. Should we sacrifice our idealism for realism? Is it realistic to think that there is such a one? If so, whats the chances that the relationship may consumate.

Perhaps that girl of your dreams either has a boyfriend, beyond your reach, overseas et c. And it is beyond you. Hope is such a depressing word, is hope denial of reality?(quote off rastlin Dgonlance)

Abstract reality
Saturday. 5.22.04 8:38 pm
My ideal girl : Intelligent, beautiful, sophisticated, cultured, mannered and comfortable.

Reality: unintelligent, homely, uneducated, and comfortable.

A certain friend of a friend of mine was told by her boyfriends parents that to marry their son she had to be able to support herself to the extent she wouldn't burden her son. They asked for 50 000$ from her personally to be put aside if the two should marry. Now coming from a working class background and working at her $10 a hr job she realised that she could never afford 50 000$ needed for marriage. When she asked her boyfriend about it, he shrugged saying his parents said it in their best interest.

Now having loved her boyfriend she was willing to do anything for him, and she did the only thing that could make a lot of money in a year to be able to afford 50 000$- prostitution. Her boyfriend was oblivious to all this being a spoilt kid who thinks money comes out of nowhere, and when she had to borrow $2000 to come overseas he demanded she pay back from her earnings ASAP. She repaid back 1800$ in the first 2weeks where he demanded where was the other $200.
Obviously shes hurt /confused/hateful of the whole situation.

I can only imagine what it is like to be loved like a girl like her. A girl who is willing to do everything, (the boyfriend does not deserve her) for love.
Obviously I am not asking a girl to go sell her body so I can have spending money, its rather that she was willing to do so much to be with someone she loved. Isn't that true love? It's a reality check for me, to realise that my search for love all my life has been in vain, when I am willing to do so much for them, but they aren't willing to do reprocipiate it.






3 Comments.


She stupid to fall for the guy, should have looked at the compatability first before the chemistry takes place. And dont worry no girl will sell their body for you, but it feels good to dream of such girls that exist. There are other reasons why she would want to sell her body for the guy, other than true love....to get citizenship in a country with better living conditions. I know plenty who does this, but if the girl comes from a poor background, then the guy should know its not love to take her money. If he wants money he should find rich girls. I know plenty of rich girls from my country that wants to come here. But those rich girls don't know how to do anything cus ppl are hired to do everything for them...Not boasting, but no about of money can buy me...I like living a simple life.
» Shaolin Monkey (203.166.57.12) on 2004-05-24 01:05:48


My ideal girl: good cook, good with children, healthy, good in bed, less educated than me, less money than me, innocent but horny, cute personality, homely....just like Alina.
» Shaolin Monkey (203.166.57.12) on 2004-05-24 01:35:31


Reality (the ones I'm likely to be with): cant cook, cant handle children, semi-healthy(aids), very selfish in bed, big headed, bossy, bitchy, more money than me, innocent wannabes...just like the rich girls in my country LOL. oh well...thats my life.
» Shaolin Monkey (203.166.57.12) on 2004-05-24 01:43:08

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