How many times have we had the chance to get involved in short term relationship with people that aren't compatible with us, but we are interested because they can temporarily fufill a void?

Compatibility for some of us is such a hard criteria for it to be fufilled. How many of us run into people that think in similiar ways , but at the same time feel totally comfortable around them?

But at the same end, being totally selective leaves us with a possibility of being single forever, which isn't a great option.

Exactly which sacrifices should we make in trade for all this. Should we sacrifice our idealism for realism? Is it realistic to think that there is such a one? If so, whats the chances that the relationship may consumate.

Perhaps that girl of your dreams either has a boyfriend, beyond your reach, overseas et c. And it is beyond you. Hope is such a depressing word, is hope denial of reality?(quote off rastlin Dgonlance)